Body Image After Cancer

June 5, 2017


Are you tired of looking at yourself in the mirror and feeling frumpy? Are you wearing granny panties and a granny bra during the day, or even more importantly to bed?


Your biggest sex organ is your brain.  How you feel about yourself has a huge impact on sexual desire and sexual performance.  When you picture a sexy image, a sexy scene from a movie, a sex goddess…do you picture granny panties? No! You picture sexy lingerie, or maybe even no clothing at all.  How you feel about yourself and your body carries into your intimate experience with your partner.  Do you have sex with the lights on? If not, why not? Most likely, it is because you feel insecure and don’t want your partner to see your flaws.  Your partner loves you, flaws and bare all.  You and your partner should be so connected that he should be able to close his eyes and point out every wrinkle, every scar, every mole, and every stretch mark.  Not because he/she doesn’t like them, but because he/she loves them.  Because you are a beautiful human being with flaws, and that’s OK.  It is genuine, it is honest, it is natural. 


Finding ways to accentuate your already beautiful features is a plus.  As a cancer survivor, you may still be uncomfortable with scarring, a lack of nipples, uneven breasts, etc.  One beautiful way to help with body confidence is what you are putting on your body. When you lay there in your granny panties, you probably don’t feel sexy and your partner assumes that you aren’t interested in being intimate.  Change the game in the bedroom with your lingerie.  Why? Because you’re worth it.  Because your relationship is worth it. If you want to feel sexy and comfortable in a post mastectomy bra, Ana Ono is your solution. Ana Ono is a lingerie and loungewear company that launched in 2014 by my dear friend Dana Donofree with the mission to design specifically for those who've had breast reconstruction, breast surgery, mastectomy or are living with other conditions that cause pain or discomfort.


Feel sexy, feel beautiful, feel confident. Invest in Ana Ono lingerie and do your relationship a favor, especially the relationship with yourself. Your flaws become flawless, you become more optimistic, radiant, your smile becomes brighter, and your eyes full of hope.  What do you have to lose?


You can find Ana Ono on their website or at Tiger Blossom; an online cancer recovery boutique.


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