Pain Free Sex with Hypnosis
Is sexual intercourse or inserting a tampon physically painful or difficult for you? Painful sex is often a woman’s first sign she has vaginismus. Vaginismus is the involuntary spasm of the vaginal wall, which is the muscle around the vagina. This can make sex painful and uncomfortable, or even impossible. Even if you are looking forward to sex and aroused, your vaginal muscles just close up as if you are trying to put a square peg in a round hole.
Some women have vaginismus in all situations and with any object. Others have it only in certain circumstances, like with one partner but not others, or only with sexual intercourse but not with tampons or during medical exams.
Repeated occurrences can leave you anxious, frustrated, angry, even guilty - all kinds of unpleasant mixed emotions. It can put a real strain on relationships and cause you to avoid sex altogether.
If your doctor has ruled out a physical condition causing vaginismus, it is most likely a psychological cause resulting from fear or anxiety around sex.
Negative response patterns like this get established because at some time in the past your unconscious mind made an emotional connection linking a certain behavior with very unpleasant consequences. Now your body acts as if it’s protecting itself from this specific behavior.
Association like this may be due to negative experiences around sex during childhood, like learning that sex is wrong, 'dirty', or shameful. Or it could be that some previous sexual experiences turned out very badly for you including sexual assault, so now it's hard to relax even if you are happy with your current partner.
But whatever the specific personal psychological background in your situation, the mechanism is the same. Your unconscious mind tries to protect you from the perceived danger of unpleasant consequences by making it physically difficult for you to engage in the behavior that it has linked with those consequences.
Private hypnosis sessions will reassure, soothe and calm your mind and body, and link this wonderful ease, calm and pleasurable enjoyment to the experience of deep physical intimacy. Your vaginal muscles will literally relearn to relax during sex.
Hypnosis can be combined with progressive desensitization treatment, allowing you to get comfortable with insertion.
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